Naming the Shamer.
for my part,
there’s a large vulnerability in sharing our ideas on-line, so we will need to have arduous shell to deflect criticism.
No matter my efforts to retain a constructive perspective and makes an attempt to seek out worthy matters to debate on my weblog,
each time i obtain certainly one of these letters Blaming and Shaming,
i discover myself spending an hour or two in re-evaluation.
Sure; this particular person is clearly a Bully, however that doesn’t essentially imply they’re all the time incorrect of their conclusions.
PERHAPS she is correct.
Regardless of my efforts to share from others, is that this weblog actually self-promoting ?
Maybe i actually DON’T actually have something worthwhile so as to add to the dialog.
Clearly some people really feel that my weblog is un-helpful and demeaning.
Is it definitely worth the effort to jot down and SHARE my ideas ?
Does it actually help people now, or will it help people sooner or later ?
Is running a blog actually value it ??
On-line Bullying is changing into so prevalent that i’ve determined to start naming names.
Rose was one of many first … and can also be the newest.
Rose Tyson (rose83616) started her damaging feedback with eight paragraphs on 28 Apr 2015.
“I see no formal academic credentials that give credence to your proper to talk as a dementia knowledgeable. …
I see solely a self-serving opportunist. …
You’re a pathetic panderer of
a fraudulent consideration seeker.
Please, take your little reduce and paste publication, ((she is referring to Dementia Symptom Views))
your self-promoting private running a blog
and go discover one other trigger to assist.
You don’t belong in a inhabitants of really in poor health individuals.
You demean the aim of DAI.” ((Dementia Alliance Worldwide))
— Rose Tyson on 28Apr2015.
Rose clearly nonetheless feels the identical, as most up-to-date from Rose
(now barely completely different eMail since she leaves out one of many 6s, with rose8316)
are excerpts from 03Dec2018 (re my friendship with Susan Suchan)
“Severely? It’s important to make Susan all about you?
Let me share one thing with you….you’ll by no means be in the identical class as Susan or Dena.
Please cease making an attempt to make individuals suppose you have been their closest buddy.
They walked the stroll….you merely speak with no substantive information about dementia.”
— Rose Tyson on 03Dec2018
(above is a treasured photograph of Susan and me)
12 Dec 2018
“… My guess is that you’re mentally in poor health … Schizophrenia …”
— Rose Tyson 12Dec2018
and 25 March 2019
“… You add nothing new when it comes to analysis or perception.
You don’t have anything so as to add …”
— Rose Tyson 25Mar2019
A number of instances i’ve talked about conclusions from long-term psychological analysis by medical physician specializing in Psychology.
No; will NOT share physician’s identify to have her add it to the listing of others she drags via the mud in her newest rant.
Regardless of my efforts at constructive perspective,
Rants like these normally undermine my confidence (and so writing talents) for a time .
Rants like these discourage others who could want to weblog or share their conclusions or ideas.
… That is the true dis-service for these with dementia, MCI, their core assist individuals, and others who would assist
— or an encouraging phrase at acceptable instances.
The collective information
and caring spirit
of those that write and share their experiences
shouldn’t have to face this vicious criticism
for talking their reality.
When i understand there’s nothing constructive in continueing relationship with a Bully,
i commonly copy/paste to my “Adverse Feedback” file,
however then delete.
— i don’t want to get my pals agitated by making an attempt to “defend” me …
and completely distract from the purpose of every particular weblog entry.
That may be counter-productive.
For these wishing to begin or proceed blog-writing,
YOU are shining stars within the universe,
and that i applaud your efforts.
— however be careful for the bullies (like Rose Tyson).
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Harry’s entry on Bullying >> https://truthfulkindness.com/index-persons-with-dementia-pwd/harry-urban/cyber-bullies/
High Dozen >> https://truthfulkindness.com/2019/03/18/dozen-2019/
Index of Different Contributors >> https://truthfulkindness.com/index-persons-with-dementia-pwd/
Checklist of different Bloggers >> https://truthfulkindness.com/hyperlinks/
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