I’ve never been hit with such dark thoughts immediately after waking up, they usually at least give me some hours of the day before striking…..

I’m shedding all the things inside, and that increasingly more kills any motive to work for something outdoors (outdoors the thoughts and physique, as within the bodily world).

I’m 23 and my existence is far much less fulfilling and regular than I ever imagined it may or could be.

I’m 23, reside with my mother and father, have a very backside of the barrel job that 7-Eight out of 10 individuals who do it are, particular wants, the remainder both highschool children who by no means labored, or life was tougher than they anticipated too, I assume…..

I suffered via social Hell my total faculty life, which completely killed my capacity to concentrate on faculty work, my grades actually plummeted, my mother and father even stopped punishing me once they realized I simply wasn’t going to enhance.

I did have pals, despite the fact that it barely appears like I did now, however as we bought older, one after the other they went away, not like moved, however issues occurred, we stopped speaking, one tried to blackmail me into letting him give me a BJ, which I refused, scared it’d damage me from ever having fun with girls in the event that they ever desired me (by no means occurred).

Society’s calls for appear to be greater than I can deal with, and it already appears not value it to work so exhausting only for such a small reward, the reward is tremendous disproportionate to the work required to attain it.

Some individuals say “You’re simply lazy” or “It’s best to transfer to a socialist nation” or “For those who’re not blissful you don’t belong in America”. However, what’s the level of working so exhausting (particularly when it’s twice or extra as instances exhausting for you than most individuals) within the first place? Faith? Patriotism? Meaningless ideas.

I’m known as “ugly as fuck” by so many ladies/girls, and “when you’re ugly you simply must be wealthy”. I don’t even have the motivation to place within the work to a sport I don’t wish to play. I have already got a tougher time “fundamental functioning” than the vast majority of individuals, and I see the rewards as disproportionate to the trouble required, and on prime of that, you’re STILL NOT GUARANTEED ANY REWARD even when you DO all the exhausting work required……

My mother and father criticize me, solely saying something optimistic once I say one thing destructive about myself (and nonetheless typically blame me anyway). I’m paralyzed by worry of parental judgement of even leaving the home (the place the fuck would I even go?).

I gave up on driving, I don’t need something to do with it anymore, I’ll in all probability have to write down just a few extra paragraphs to elucidate that although, then be instructed I’m making excuses, then be instructed “I’m not studying all of that” and naturally the Traditional blame sport and ignorance from anyone solely studying the primary paragraph, once they would have had their reply in the event that they learn your complete publish. Then I simply have to finish up typing increasingly more, which some individuals nonetheless received’t learn and solely acknowledge the primary paragraph, and even simply the title publish, I’ll be instructed “Develop the Fuck up or kill your self, you’re simply making excuses and wish everybody to really feel sorry for you.” It’s not even potential to make everybody perceive……

Not too way back, I made a decision to stroll lower than two miles to a quick meals place, and my mother utterly freaked out yelling how I used to be silly and going to get killed. I stated “Are you going to drive me then?” She stated “NO!” I stated “OK, bye then”. She stored calling me and texting me saying how I NEEDED TO COME BACK! She even ended up driving after me, and really drove me there. I couldn’t consider it.

She used that as an excuse to go to the shop subsequent door anyway, but when I might have stayed dwelling, she wouldn’t have gone. Then she went on extra about how i would like a monitoring app on my telephone. I’ll by no means recover from my points and get out of the home if that occurs.

I’m not driving within the goddamn site visitors, I’m not driving 40-85 MPH an hour with different individuals driving automobiles round me, I’m not staying in my room 24/7 (already did that for two years in a rural space), my mother tells me continually that I have to get out of my room (working a job is outwardly not sufficient that she expects) however freaks out once I wish to really stroll someplace.

I couldn’t proceed spending $60 a driving lesson, no one would observe with me free of charge, and I already didn’t wish to drive within the first place.

I can’t even go into the goddamn navy as a result of I’ve OCD (and my allergy symptoms would positively be one other entry block) and must take tablets, and everybody says “For those who can’t even be a part of the navy or drive oh effectively, that’s it, you’re screwed, finish of your story.”

Life is NOT AT ALL like I assumed it might be whenever you turn out to be legally an grownup, it’s not solely unfair, it actively fights towards you, it’s rigged, it’s corrupt, and individuals who select to go off the grid may even be arrested and introduced again and into jail for “evading the federal government”. The system needs to maintain you out, however on the similar time preserve you in.

I assumed driving could be simple, I assumed getting a good job to pay residing prices could be simple, I assumed attraction and relationships could be simple, I assumed life could be east, pure, and like autopilot.

Okay-12 faculty was an entire waste of time and tax {dollars}, it did nothing to organize for the REAL WORLD. Simply bullshit math with letters and pointless steps, and historical past that’s cool, however I can learn on-line free of charge however nonetheless doesn’t impression life functioning, and science that solely a really small share of individuals use for his or her profession. I can learn and write, however that’s not sufficient. Actually, all the things goes digital, and coding and shit wasn’t even taught in fundamental faculty. You’re imagined to go to varsity (dad stated “extra faculty is for lazy children who wish to postpone working just a few extra years, and your free rides into city finish after highschool commencement, which they did).

Then dad’s alcoholism ended their marriage, than step father got here in, then his abuse begins, then I discover his terrifying legal file on-line, then his IRS situation goes after my mother, and neither I nor my mother can afford precise residing prices. He makes use of divorce as a menace, and he has psychotic anger that has made me almost name 911 (however knew we’d be homeless if he went to jail) and plan on stabbing his throat out of worry for my life and my mother and sister’s life.

He has been a bit much less dangerous these days, however there are nonetheless points. If it weren’t for my mother’s refusal to depart town being again in it after so a few years, he would go to probably the most distant location potential, extra remoted than earlier than, and I couldn’t and wouldn’t go, even when it meant eventual city homelessness, I don’t care how many individuals on the web say full hikkimori isolation is best than homelessness, I can’t return, I felt that the isolation would final eternally.

I apologize for the “novel” and I do know that I nonetheless haven’t communicated all needed particulars, there’s at all times extra data so as to add (whether or not anyone else acknowledges the shortage of particulars or not) and I don’t even bear in mind what I used to be about to sort subsequent.

I 99.99% consider this rant publish will do completely nothing to assist me in life, however I felt the necessity to get it out anyway.

Nothing in life will ever change except you’re taking motion, but it surely must be The particularly proper motion, or you’ll keep put, go backwards, and even worsen your state of affairs.

I used to be raised to consider that solely lazy bums and mentally disabled individuals fail in life, particularly on the “most elementary” issues.

I’m too scared to kill myself, as a result of I can’t be 100% sure that there is no such thing as a God or satan or hell.

Greatest my thoughts will enable me to speak proper now……

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